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Babywearing again…

I haven’t worn Khéna in a while… nearing three he still over 40lbs and though he asks to be worn at times and I have my wrap with me pretty much all the time, he would rather walk…

Also, with my pelvis being so sore and being more and more pregnant, I am really not minding having the extra weight even though he is not much heavier than he was at one year…

I am however looking forward to baby wearing a new baby again… I LOVE to wear a little one… and I am looking forward to using my wraps again, especially a stretchy wrap with a new little one and then the Storch as the baby grows…

I had mentioned in a recent post that I had made a new friend in the area who opened a store recently… I have been talking to here more and more and we have been starting to organize a few things together for her store/my interests and the community… After talking to me, she decided to put a sign up saying that the store will be offering baby wearing classes and pre-natal classes (natural birth)… She wore her youngest a bit but not as much as she would have wanted so she doesn’t know much but was really excited when I offered to help… So I will be giving the classes and will get the money that they pay for the class, and she will be able to sell items in her store. I think it is a perfect solution. She also asked me to help give the pre-natal classes with her, and again, I would be make a little money…

So tonight, I am giving the first babywearing class, to 2 or 3 moms… We would have wanted to wait for a few more but one of the moms is about to give birth and would like to have the information before so that she can start right away…

I am not really nervous tonight, which is great and I am looking forward to get back in the groove again… I was missing it :)

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Babywearing favourites…

As you know, I am a big proponent of babywearing. I believe that it not only is the best for baby, but it also makes life a lot easier especially in the beginning… and it really is an integral part of my parenting belief.

So what are my favourites…

1. ~A Wrap~

My favourite is a good length woven wrap that doesn’t have much (or any) stretch… (such as Storchenwiege, Didymos or even the thinner Ellaroo among many others….)

Ease of use: Though they do have a learning curve and many people are frightened by the amount of material (on average about 5 metres long) I believe that they are the most versatile and the most comfortable carrier also…

Positions:  They are great for newborn carries, breastfeeding (cradle), front carries, hip carries, back carries and pretty much way you could imagine wearing a baby…

What ages: Although stretchy wraps (Moby, Cuddly wrap, Maman Kangourou etc) are great for newborns and the first weeks or even a few months if the baby is small, they do not hold up for large babies… And in my experience, people who have bought a stretchy wrap as their only carrier, as the baby grows they are more likely to give up on baby wearing because it becomes uncomfortable or they need to invest in another carrier after a few months.

2. ~A Sling~

Though I didn’t use my sling at all with Khéna a sling is an amazing carrier… simple yet versatile. It was my first carrier and the one that I used the most often for quite a long time. However, they are not the best carrier for long periods of time nor are they the best for larger babies. All the weight is on one shoulder so even if the sling is positioned well after a while you start feeling the weight more.

Ease of use: They are great for quick in and outs, pretty easy to learn how to use and pretty versatile..

Positions: Great for newborn and breastfeeding (cradle) positions and then for front positions facing in or the Buddha position facing out and great for the hip position….

What ages: Newborn to toddler and even longer depending on weight…

3. ~A Mei Tai or other Asian inspired structured carriers~ (Ergo, Beco etc)

Though this is third on my list it is Simon’s favourite carrier… I have a Babyhawk and I used to have an Ergo and I love how easy they are to use and many people love them… like Simon who wears Khéna in the Babyhawk on a regular basis but personally they don’t fit my body type… I wish they did because they are quicker than the wrap to get on for back carries (though I think that I can wrap almost as quickly now) and they are pretty comfortable for those whose body types do work well with them.. I think that with next baby I might try to make one with “wrap like” wide shoulder straps to see if that would be better…

Ease of use: Pretty easy to use and best for quick in and outs in the back position.

Positions: facing in on the front or on back or cradle position with the newborn insert.

What ages: These are not very good for newborns or in the first months without special inserts… They are great however for older babies, toddlers and even “pre-schoolers” and I have to admit that for quick in-and-outs from and to a parents back they are easier than the wrap…

4. ~Pouch~

Pouches are at the bottom of my list… sure they can look stylish and are seen a lot… they are easy to put on and easy to use… but they also have to be fitted right so they most often cannot be used by both parents and post partum size can change so it the size that you buy at first might not be the size you need a few months later…Again, the one shoulder use, means that you will eventually get some shoulder strain after a while…

Ease of use: very easy which is probably why they are so popular…

Positions: facing in on the front, hip, facing out in the Buddha position or cradle for breastfeeding.

What ages: Newborn to smaller toddler.

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new wrap…

Khéna is getting heavy and my beloved Ellaroo’s where just not cutting it anymore… They are beautiful, they are light and strong but the heavier the babe the more pressure points…

So I started looking around and finally decided on a Storchenwiege

Looking around I found that the best price around here was at Maman Autrement… an Internet based company on the South shore of Montreal. I called her up and asked if I could go get it directly and went to her home last night… turns out she is a WAHM and we know a few of the same people…  I debated a bit between the Natural and the Inka and decided to go with the Inka… I love the colours!

I has fun wearing Khéna today and what an amazing difference between the 2 wraps… I am so happy!!

Inka

Inka

Inka

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The good and the bad…

What a day…

It was Khéna’s appt for the allergist today.. so Simon took the day off do that he could be with the boys while I go to the hospital. We headed into Montreal this morning and I dropped the guys off a the pool which we thought would be a fun thing for them to do together…

I headed for the hospital, found a parking space and started waiting… when we finally got into see the Allergist and going through the symptoms he had etc she said that is sounded viral and that if I didn’t want it we could just skip the allergy tests so that he didn’t have to through it all.. So I said that I agree and then she said to just start introducing a bit of everything… even peanuts can be introduced at anytime but just to watch him carefully after we do…

So, we left without testing which made us in advance to go get Simon and the boys… So I headed to Bummis for some Covers which we need and then went and waited for the guys…

Simon came out and I saw that he wasn’t too happy… turns out that he got robbed while he was in the pool… the lock on the locker was gone and they took his debit card, buss pass, some money and his work identity cards…  thankfully they didn’t get his wallet and his Palm which was in his Coat… Some people really suck…. The thing that hurts us the most is the buss card.. 207$ down the drain… That really cuts into our budget…

Of course today is also the day that I bought a new wrap… I needed something more supportive than my EllaRoo’s because of Khéna’s weight… so now I have a Storchenwiege Inka! I can’t wait to try it!

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Hip carry with the Ellaroo…

Hip position with the Ellaroo

It is really easy to do and is very comfy!!

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Ellaroo Action shot…

I love my new Ellaroo… the colours are so chocolaty…

Ellaroo Elsa

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8 years…

Yesterday was our 8 year anniversary… wow… I can’t believe that it has been 8 years already… then of course… that day seems as though it was an eternity ago…

My mom was here for two days to visit and when she actually showed up I realized that Simon and I could probably go out without the older boys… Khéna of course is too young to be left for an hour or two… so Simon and I went out with Khéna and went to the little Thai restaurant that I love. It was the first time we have been out to supper together like that in about 5 years… of course we had Khéna… but it is not the same…

After the restaurant we went to a little cafe for dessert and coffee and then walked around a bit before heading home… of course the boys were still awake and had just got out of the bath when we got home…

I was a great evening…

oh… Here is one of my gifts….

A new Ellaroo… the new ELSA… mmmm… chocolate coloured…

My new Ellaroo (Elsa)

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My new BabyHawk!

I am a bit frustrated at the time it took (2 months!!)…

I e-mailed to ask about it a few weeks after I ordered it and they said that they had sent it a while before and it might have gotten lost in the mail… but she still had some of the material left… so they would make another… BUT they didn‘t have anymore of the other material that I asked for so asked if I could choose another…

A few days later I got the confirmation that they sent it (which I had not gotten before) and when I got it yesterday they had included the leftover material so really… they had lied that they had sent it before…

I am also pretty sure that I didn’t get the longer straps that I had asked for… but since I don’t know how long the straps are usually I don’t know yet… I e-mailed again today and I was asked to measure them but I haven’t gotten a response yet…

Here it is though, and though I am not too happy about the Customer Service right now, the carrier itself is gorgeous!!!!

My new Babyhawk
Cherry Paisley

My new Babyhawk
Alexander Henry (day of the dead)

on chocolate straps….

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I am a stay at home mama of three gorgeous boys living in a small city in the province of Quebec, they make sure that I never have a boring day... We unschool, we believe in living consensually and respectfully and we try to live as Naturally as possible. This blog is about my life... parenting, unschooling, cooking, sewing and whatever else comes to mind...